4 posts tagged “sex”

Okay, this week really is TMI.  Turn back now if you don't want to know - you've been warned.  :-)

TMI

1. What's your favorite color of lingerie?

I don't know that I have a favorite color - I really like black, though.

2. Do you have a porn collection?

I don't know that you'd so much call it a collection...

3. Do you have any fetishes?

I'm involved with the BDSM community.  Some people count that.  I don't.

4. What is your favorite place to have sex?

In bed.

5. Do you like to scratch, bite, pull hair, etc? Do you like having it done to you?

I don't particularly like to do it, but I like to have it done.

Bonus (as in optional): Do you think the number of sexual partners you've had is below average, average, or above average, and how does that make you feel?

I feel like the number is average.  I feel fine about that.

TMI

1. If you're in love with your partner, does it make the sex better?

I honestly don't know.

2. What is the most expensive sex toy you've ever purchased?

Couldn't be that expensive - probably $40 or so.

3. If you knew ahead of time you would not have an orgasm, would you still have sex?

Yes.

4. What celebrity would you most like to have sex with if given the chance?

Dermot Mulroney, I think.

5. Have you ever had sex while an audience watched?

No.

Bonus (as in optional): Describe the best sexual encounter you've ever had.

I'd been sleeping with the same guy for about 4 years.  Last September or October he and I were both out (on a Thursday) and there was much drinking.  We went home together.  He was both drunk and strung out on shitty cocaine, but for whatever reason it made him generous where he'd never been in the past.

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TMI Tuesday

1. Is there a TV show you HAVE to watch? If so, what is it? There are several that I'm pretty into but thanks to network television putting the shows online there aren't any I feel I need to rush home for.  But I love Men In Trees.

2. What is you favorite drink if you are going to drink more than one? Alcoholic drinks?  Red Snappers - that's Crown, Amaretto and Cranberry Juice

3. How long do you carry guilt around with you? It depends on what I'm feeling guilty for.  Generally, until I resolve it somehow by talking to the person or dealing with it internally.

4. Where is or would be your number one romantic get away spot? Honestly it's not a destination.  Just me and my honey somewhere away from people and cell service where we can just be us without outside influences.

5. Have you ever seen a counselor? Yeah - I've been in school for a long time!

Bonus (as in optional): Last summer the Archives of Sexual Behavior the 237 reasons people have sex and the Top 50 Reasons Men and Women Have Sex. What are your top 5 reasons?

I don't really have a top five reasons, but here are 5 good reasons to have sex:

1. It's fun.

2. It feels good.

3. It's a way to connect with my partner.

4. It makes him happy.

5. It makes me feel desirable.

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Wednesday weirdness

1. You get to go back in time to any year/era you want to go to. Present day you has to adapt to the lifestyle of whatever era you chose and live back in that time for one year. What era are you going back to and why?

I'd like to go back into the 50's I think and play June Cleaver.  I always say how much I like the idea of that but I wonder how I'd really cope with being pretty well made to stay home.  I wonder if there'd be enough stimulation for me in that lifestyle.

2. What is your opinion on the butterfly effect theory? (click the link if you aren't familiar with it =D)

Well, I think it's probably very true that small changes in initial events can create large long term changes.  It seems both reasonable and rational to me that that would be the case.

3. Do you hand wash your dishes or use a dishwasher?

I wash my dishes by hand only because I don't have a diswasher.  Something that I'll never to do myself again!

4. If you had to give up sex or the internet and could never do the one you gave up ever again; which would you give up?

I think I'd probably give up the internet.  Sex is a way to connect with someone important to you, right?  Or, possibly just a way to have fun.  There'd still be phones and whatnot.  Okay, there's really no way to rationalize this, I just really don't want to give up sex!

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